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Dressing and Posing Tips for a Photoshoot in Philadelphia (Without Looking Like You’re Trying Too Hard)

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How to Not Totally Freak Out Before Your Photoshoot in Philly

So, you’ve scheduled your photoshoot in Philadelphia—congrats! You’re about to capture some precious memories. But let’s be real, we all know what’s coming: wardrobe meltdowns, questionable outfit choices, and a few awkward poses that you hope don’t end up on Instagram. Don't worry, I’ve got your back. Here’s your guide to dressing and posing like a pro, even if you’ve never had a “Pinterest-worthy” moment in your life.

Choosing Your Outfits Without Looking Like You’re About to Film a Soap Opera

First things first—let’s talk outfits. Philly’s got a vibe, and you want to make sure your outfits don’t scream “tourist” or “I’m auditioning for a 90s sitcom.” Think: casual chic, not “I’m on my way to a wedding but also have to run errands.”

Color Palette Tip: Go for those earthy tones that blend in with Philly’s gritty, yet charming streets. Earthy greens, muted oranges, and creamy whites. Bonus: You won’t look like a walking neon sign next to the iconic Philly architecture. Cool, right?

Avoid anything too wild, like neon pink leopard print or sequins. You’re not trying to steal the spotlight from the city’s majestic murals. Trust me, it’s better to let the scene and the real star (you!) do the talking.

How to Coordinate Without Turning Into the ‘Matching Family Shirt’ People

Let’s talk family outfits. The goal is to look coordinated without looking like you all belong to a cult. Try sticking to one color palette, but let each person show their personality. For example: one person can wear a funky print while others rock a solid color in the same family—simple, yet stylish.

Here’s the trick—no matching family polos, please. I don’t care if you all just returned from a cruise, let’s leave those behind.

Also, you’re not required to wear all-white. We’re not shooting the “Brady Bunch reunion,” okay? Feel free to mix up textures, layers, and those oh-so-fashionable comfortable sneakers—because Philly streets are not forgiving when it comes to high heels.

Dressing Your Kids Without Giving Them a Full-On Meltdown (And We’ve Got That Covered, Too)

Listen, we all know kids don’t care about fashion, but they do care about comfort. So let them wear those clothes they actually like and, for the love of all things cute, make sure they can move in them. Nobody wants to see a kid stiffly standing there like they’re in a museum exhibit. Cotton and linen, my friends, are your best friends.

And look, if your kid insists on wearing that superhero cape or sparkly tutu—let them. This is their chance to be the star of the show (besides you, of course). The more they’re involved in the outfit decision, the less likely they’ll refuse to cooperate later when it’s time to actually take the photos.

Oh, and don’t even worry about dressing your kids! We’ve got that covered too with our fabulous client closet. Whether it’s a cute little dress, or something vintage that makes them feel like they’re starring in their very own fairy tale, we’ve got outfits for them—so you can skip the shopping spree and the last-minute panic.

Posing Naturally (Because Who Needs Stiff Poses Anyway?)

Here’s the best part: we don’t need any stiff, formal poses. No one wants to see you looking like you just stepped out of a 1970s high school yearbook photo. Instead, let's make some memories and capture the real moments.

Go ahead, laugh, hug, jump around (don’t worry, no one’s judging), chase your kids through the park, or pretend you’re on an adventure in Philly—whatever feels right. The more relaxed and authentic you are, the better the photos will turn out.

And hey, if you really feel like showing off those dance moves from your wedding day, let’s do it! But just make sure you’re not trying to do the Macarena unless you’re ready for some really wild photos.

Making the Most of Philly’s Fabulous Cityscape

Philly is full of surprises—cool alleyways, vibrant street art, and iconic spots like LOVE Park and the Rocky Steps. So, instead of just standing in front of a random brick wall, interact with the city! Lean against a mural, sit on a statue, or even climb those Rocky Steps like you’re preparing for a movie montage. It’s Philly, people—let’s use it to our advantage.

Here is a beautiful forest location in Pennsylvania. A maternity session in the snow.

Oh, and don’t forget: Philly gets real sunny (or real rainy), so make sure to pack sunglasses and maybe an umbrella. I know, I know. You didn’t plan on getting a downpour in the middle of your shoot—but who doesn't love a “rainy day chic” moment, am I right?

This was an empowerment branding session for mom in the forest for her belly dancing!

How to Stay Calm and Not Lose Your Mind During the Shoot

So, you’re probably nervous about how this will go, and that’s totally normal. Take a deep breath and let’s have some fun with it. Try a little pre-shoot walk around Philly. Take in the sights, feel the city’s energy, and then let it all sink in: this photoshoot is about memories, not perfection.

Remember: no one is going to be “perfect.” It’s all about capturing the love, the laughs, and maybe a stray pigeon in the background that we’ll pretend was intentional. This is Philly, after all. No one expects perfection.

A gorgeous mommy and me session encapsulating the spring time and the pastel colors that resonate.

Let’s Make Some Magic Happen (And by Magic, I Mean Epic Photos)

Ready for some fun? Of course, you are! Philly’s got everything you need for a truly one-of-a-kind photoshoot, and I’m here to make sure it’s the most fun you’ve had in front of a camera (besides your last selfie, of course). Just relax, laugh, and let the city guide you to some epic shots. Trust me, you’ll walk away with photos you’ll be proud to show off. And hey, if they end up on your grandma’s mantle—well, that’s a win too.

Happy (and hilarious) shooting!

Deirdre Giumetti
Shooting Star Photography
Serving Philadelphia, Mainline, Northern Delaware, and all of Southern New Jersey.

Encourage your kids to explore the environment. Let them marvel at the trees, chase after squirrels, or toss leaves in the air. These joyful moments will reflect the essence of your family bond and make for beautiful, authentic photos.

Don’t be afraid to experiment with different poses. Lean against an old tree, sit together on a rock, or swing your little one up in the air. These relaxed, playful interactions often bring out the warmth and connection between family members, creating timeless images.