Jersey Shore Family Photos: How to Prepare Kids for a Beach Session
Planning a family beach photo session at the Jersey Shore sounds dreamy — golden sunset light, ocean breezes, and children laughing in the sand. And while those moments absolutely happen, parents are often surprised by how unpredictable young kids can be near the water.
After more than a decade photographing families in Ocean City, Cape May, Wildwood, and throughout the South Jersey coast, I’ve learned that the secret to beautiful portraits isn’t perfect behavior — it’s preparation, flexibility, and embracing the chaos that naturally comes with childhood.
This guide will help you feel confident walking into your session so you can relax, enjoy the experience, and walk away with images you truly love.So, you’ve booked a beautiful family beach photo session at the Jersey Shore—maybe in Ocean City, Cape May, or Wildwood. You’re picturing golden-hour light, breezy smiles, and a final gallery of frame-worthy images that will make your mother-in-law weep with pride.
Playing on the beach at the Jersey Shore.
Reality check: Someone will get sand in their eyes. Someone will suddenly refuse to participate. If you have multiple kids, at least one will dramatically collapse like they’ve just hiked the entire boardwalk in July.
Welcome to the Parental Survival Guide for Beach Photo Shoots, where I’ll help you embrace the chaos, keep your sanity, and still walk away with stunning portraits (even if it means rewarding yourself with a post-session margarita).
Flip of the hair and having fun in the ocean.
Accept the Chaos.
First things first—let go of the idea that everything will go perfectly. Kids + sand + an attention span shorter than a seagull’s meal plan = unpredictable energy. And you know what? That’s exactly what makes the best photos!
Instead of stiff, posed shots, expect running, jumping, and spontaneous bursts of laughter. Some of the most treasured images come from those unexpected moments—windblown giggles, sandy toes, and the way your little one tugs at your hand as the waves roll in.
Just playing in the sand and being free. Wearing Tutu Du Monde. Check out their dresses!
Bribery Works
Your child isn’t here for the memories. They’re here because you promised them something. And that’s fine! Smart parents know how to negotiate.
Top-tier bribes that work every time:
✔️ Ice cream from their favorite boardwalk stand
✔️ A special toy from a Cape May boutique
✔️ Extra screen time (no shame, we’ve all been there)
✔️ A new beach bucket set (so they can promptly bury their sibling in the sand)
Fishing Pier in Ocean City!
Dress for Success
Those classic, timeless beach portraits, I always recommend light, neutral tones—soft blues, whites, pastels. But here’s the thing: If your toddler is known for rejecting clothing at random, bring them in pajamas and change on-site. Trust me, fighting about a dress at home is a battle you won’t win.
Timing also plays a major role in successful beach portraits. Sessions are scheduled close to sunset when the light becomes softer and more flattering, temperatures are cooler, and beaches are less crowded. This timing naturally helps children feel more relaxed, which results in more genuine expressions and connection.
Finding Seashells on the beach!
Also, bring backup clothes. If your child is anywhere near water, assume they will end up soaked.
The waves beckon.
Managing Expectations
I know you’re thinking, “I just want one good picture.” Here’s the thing—you’ll get more than one. But the best ones? They’re not always the perfectly posed, everyone-smiling-at-the-camera shots.
Some of the most heartwarming images come from the in-between moments:
✨ The way your little one clings to you when the waves rush in
✨ A belly laugh as they chase seagulls
✨ That sweet moment of sandy hand-holding between siblings
Laughing and having fun!
Your family’s real personalities and real joy shine through in those moments—and that’s what makes your photos truly unforgettable.
Celebrate the Experience
The session is over. Your kids had a blast, you only had to use three of your planned bribes, and no one was permanently lost to the ocean. That’s a win.
Now, go enjoy that ice cream (yes, you too). Or if you’re like me, grab a well-earned drink, sit back, and get excited for your stunning, hand-edited portraits—because I promise, they’ll be worth every sandy, snack-demanding moment.
Running towards toward the waves.
Planning Your Jersey Shore Family Photo Session
Beach portraits are available throughout the summer and early fall across Ocean City, Cape May, Wildwood, and surrounding South Jersey shore towns.
Availability is limited during peak season, so early booking is recommended.
Whether your session takes place in Ocean City, Cape May, Avalon, or Wildwood, the Jersey Shore provides a timeless backdrop that families return to year after year.
Happy Shooting, my friends!
Dee
